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Sandi – I remember your brother’s accident. I didn’t realize who you are until now. I work with several people who knew your mom (and one of them sent me you!) and I remember how terrible it was. I am so sorry for your loss. You may never know how many people you just touched by opening your heart. Keep his memory alive and you will be together some day – forever. And remember the lesson and keep the priorities you’ve already set with your kids and your family! No regrets though…

Sandy, I have been so moved by your posting, and I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m sure you heart is still as heavy as it was 13 years ago. Your brother seems like he was an amazing brother and person! I have 2 brothers; one with whom I’m very close, and one that I don’t really have a relationship with. Reading this makes me want to call him and have a relationship with him so badly. You just never know if life.

Thank you for sharing your story! I’m not sure if this day will ever get easier for you, but know there are many people praying for your family, and your brother has made a difference!

Sandi, Thank you for sharing your memories…I have a feeling that Uncle Tommy is in heaven playing ball with the greats that have gone before! You are a precious person and big sister to remember him so fondly and keep his memory and drive alive!
Blessings to you and your family!
Michell

Sandi, your video and post was very heartfelt. Tommy was such an amazing person all-around and brought so much joy to anyone that had the pleasure of knowing him. He is in my thoughts quite often these days, with Case now playing real baseball. Thank you for sharing. All my blessings to you and your family!

Sandi, Tom, Wanda and Boys — My heart and tears to out to you, because after 13 years I am still crying. Today is my 13th wedding anniversary. It was 13 years ago today that we gave a moment of silence and remembrance to Tommy and your family at my wedding because you could not attend. On the most beautiful day of my life you were dealing with the most tragic moment of your life. I felt so selfish up there knowing you were struggling with the loss of Tommy. I remember my mom waking me up on my wedding day to tell me my fiance really needed to talk to me, even though he was not supossed to see me yet. I said “No”…he can’t see me. She said yes, he has to. He was ready to take on the strength of being a husband a few hours early, because he knew he had to be the one to tell me personally what had happened to your family. We cried. What I do know is that my wedding anniversary is a much more special day of thankfulness and meaning. There is sadness, but sadness that makes me appreciate life so much more for I know how fragile it is. I love you and thank you for allowing me to be part of your family. I commend you for being able to share your raw feelings…so all can heal. Thank you. Love, Kriss Barroco and Family

Yes, my friend, I am very inspired to hug and love on the ones I love today. Thank you for this beautiful post. My heart aches for you and your family. I shared Tommy’s story and pics with C and he said, ‘Did he know Jesus?’ YEP! Eternity will be glorious!

What a beautiful post and video tribute to your brother. I can’t even imagine not having one of my siblings…

Girl, thinking about you and your family. I know how much you miss him, and hope you feel comforted knowing he is still here with you! Hugs!

Sandi, We definitely also consider ourselves to be a little “cooler” because we knew Tommy! When I read your loving tribute to him, I found myself saying “Yep, that was Tommy” You shared a very personal side of you because like all of us, you just want people to know what an amazing brother you were so blessed to have! My favorite story about Tommy was when he wrote ME a thank you note for sharing Ross with the team. Mind you…this thank you note was written without his parents even knowing! What kind of a senior in high school does this? One of the most thoughtful, caring, loving, spiritual kids I have ever had the pleasure of knowing-Tommy! He made such an impact on our lives that when our son was born; we had to use Thomas as his middle name! We know if our son grows up to be anything like Tommy, we will be VERY, VERY proud. When Riley is on that baseball field and he is behind the plate catching, I always think of Tommy and I know he is watching Riley with a big smile on his face! (URN IGN) Once again, thank you for sharing your love for your brother and to remind all of us to cherish every moment we have on this earth! I took flowers to Tommy’s gravesite the other day (I usually take a baseball too) and when I left, I could not help but think of how proud Tommy must be of his big sis and his amazing parents! We will never forget Tommy, he will always have a special place in our hearts and we know there are many others who would say the same. Thanks again for sharing. Love, J.and R.

Sandi,
Thank you so much for sharing this. Your story really touched me. I can’t imagine how painful this must be for your family. Thank you for you beautiful words and the lesson we can all learn when we hear of a story like this. Time is so precious!!

sandi….what a tragedy for you to lose your only sibling…but a what a joyous reunion you will have in heaven. I am saddened for your loss and enjoyed reading more about your sweet brother.

Thank you for sharing such a personal story with us… your entry made me emotional and deserved to, especially since I noticed your brother and I were born the same year, only days apart. I hope there is solace in knowing that his memory will not be forgotten, and makes what we do each day as photographers that much more significant. God bless.

Oh Sandi. I am so sorry. Thank you so much for sharing your heart like this. You and your brother are gifts to us all, reminding us that we can’t ever take life for granted.

hi sandi, i am sending a BIG HUG to YOU NOW.
thanks for sharing this story. i lift you and your family in prayer!
love, tricia

Amen to you seeing him in heaven someday. Thanks for sharing.